choices

more often than not, choices have to be made. choices can be dificult, easy, confusing, and the sort. however, some decisions seem to tear you apart. sometimes these decisions are detrimental, sometimes they seem to rip us apart. not all choices are difficult, however. for example, what to eat, what to wear. let us explore the difficulty when we make choices.

sometimes, people are afraid to make choices because they are afraid of the outcome of their choice.as the saying goes, every action has a consequence. similarly, every decision and choice have a consequence too. however afraid we are to make decisions, they are a necessary part of daily life. many people spend numerous hours thinking "what if... i'ld made a different decision?" "what is i said something different?" or "what would have been different if.... " after they'ld made a decision. it is a good thing to be reflective and thoughtful. however, thinking too much, and dwelling too much on what might have been is a total waste of time. why not spend the time thinking about how to make what we have, or the decisons we'ld made and the situation we're in better?

it is important that we are allowed to relax and smile at the end of the day, thinking that we'ld made the right decision. we would be able to smile and pat ourselves on the back. however, wrong decisions and choices are an impertiment part of life and everyone makes wrong choices from time to time.

since choices are essential, cant be correct 100% of the time, we should always remember that everything happens for a reason. there is always the light at the end of the tunnel, the silver lining around every cloud. by lightening up and relaxing, we would be happier and think clearer. thus we would be able to make right choices! its a wonderful cycle.-- hapapy people make good decisions, and after making right choices, people would be happy(:


(: hee. i gtg now for piano lesson. for anyone who actually read it, i just felt like writing something not about my feelings and what's going on for a change.